میرے پیارے طلباء ، اس حدیث میں ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا ہے کہ اچھے دوست بنائیں کیونکہ آپ آخرت میں اپنے دوستوں کے ساتھ رہیں گے۔ لہذا اگر آپ اچھے دوست بنائیں گے تو وہ آپ کے نیک اعمال میں اضافہ کریں گے اور آپ جنت میں چلے جائیں گے ، لیکن اگر آپ برے دوست بنائیں گے تو وہ آپ کو دوزخ کی آگ میں لے جائیں گے۔
ہر کوئی اس کے ساتھ زیادہ وقت گزارنا پسند کرتا ہے جس سے وہ محبت کرتا ہے ، نئے دوست بنانا اور اپنے دوستوں کے ساتھ کھیلنے اور تفریح کے لئے زیادہ سے زیادہ وقت گزارنا پسند کرتا ہے۔ ہمیں اپنے دوستوں کو منتخب کرنے میں بہت محتاط رہنا چاہئے کیونکہ ہر ایک اچھا دوست نہیں بن سکتا۔ ہمارے تمام کلاس فیلو اور ہمارے پڑوسی ہمارے بہترین دوست نہیں بن سکتے ہیں۔ ہمیں اچھے دوست بنانا چاہئے ، کیونکہ ہم ان سے بہت ساری اچھی چیزیں سیکھیں گے۔
تاہم ، ایک برا دوست ہماری اچھی عادات کو خراب کر سکتا ہے۔ اچھے دوست وہ ہوتے ہیں جو ہمیں اچھی چیزیں سکھاتے ہیں ، برے کاموں سے روکتے ہیں اور جو کسی پریشانی میں ہماری مدد کرتے ہیں۔ اگر اس دنیا میں ہمارے اچھے دوست ہیں تو اللہ ان شاء اللہ جنت میں ہمارے اچھے دوست کی صحبت فراہم کرے گا۔
کہانی
غار کے ساتھی
ہمارا نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم اس دنیا کے بہترین انسان تھے اور ان کے بہت سے اچھے دوست تھے ۔ ان کے تمام ساتھی بہت ہی سچے مومن تھے اور انہوں نے زندگی کے ہر لمحے میں ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی مدد کی۔
صحابہ میں حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ بہترین ساتھی تھے۔ وہ پیغمبر اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کو بہت پسند کرتے تھے اور زندگی کی ہر مشکل میں ان کے ساتھ تھے۔ وہ اسلام سے پہلے آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے دوست تھے اور وہ سب سے پہلے مسلمان بھی تھے۔
جب ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے لوگوں کو اسلام قبول کرنے کے لئے بلایا تو مکہ مکرمہ میں ہر ایک محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا دشمن بن گیا۔ بہت سے لوگوں نے آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی نافرمانی کی اور آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی راہ میں بہت سی روکاوٹیں پیدا کیں۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی حمایت میں نے ان کے ساتھ کھڑے ہوئے۔
حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ بہت دولت مند تھے ، ان کا بہت اچھا کاروبار تھا اور انہوں نے اپنے دوست اور اللہ کے لئے اپنا سارا مال اور وقت وقف کردیا۔
حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ کی بہترین قربانی اس وقت دی جب پیغمبر اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے مدینہ جانے کا فیصلہ کیا ۔ کفار مکہ ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے بدترین دشمن بن گئے اور انہوں نے ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کو قتل کرنے کا فیصلہ کیا۔ چنانچہ اللہ کے حکم سے پیغمبر اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے مدینہ جانے کا فیصلہ کیا۔ اس سفر کے دوران حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے ساتھ تھے ۔
حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ دو اونٹ لے آئے اور وہ رات کے وقت آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے سا تھ مکہ مکرمہ سے چلے گئے۔ انہوں نے ایک غار میں پناہ لی۔ اس غار کا نام غار ثور ہے۔ غار ثور کئی سالوں سے بند تھا۔ ۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ نے خود غار صاف کیا۔ غار میں بہت سارے سوراخ تھے جن میں بہت سے نقصان دہ کیڑے تھے۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ نے اپنی قمیض پھاڑ کر اس سے کچھ ٹکڑے لئے اور غار میں سوراخ بند کردیئے۔
کفار مکہ انہیں تلاش کرتے غار تک پہنچے۔ وہ غار کے باہر کھڑے تھے جہاں ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم اور حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ چھپے ہوئے تھے لیکن اللہ نے اپنے بندوں کو بچایا۔ اللہ نے وہاں ایک فاختہ بھیجی اور وہ اس گھونسلے میں بیٹھ گی اور انڈے دے دیئے۔۔ پھر مکڑی نے جال بنانا شروع کیا۔ غار کا دروازہ اب مکڑی کے جال کے ساتھ بند کردیا گیا تھا۔ کافروں کا خیال تھا کہ اس گندی اور بند غار میں کوئی یہاں نہیں ہوسکتا ہے اور اس لئے وہ وہاں سے چلے گئے۔
دونوں دوست بچ گئے اور انہوں نے غار میں کچھ آرام کرنے کا فیصلہ کیا۔
حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ نے اپنے بہترین دوست سے کچھ آرام کرنے کو کہا۔ تو ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے ان کی گود میں سر رکھا اور لیٹ گئے۔ اچانک وہاں ایک بچھو ظاہر ہوا۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ نے اپنے دوست کو پریشان نہ کرنے کا فیصلہ کیا اور اس بچھو پر ہاتھ رکھ دیا-
وہ بچھو حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ کو کاٹتا رہا۔ یہ بہت تکلیف دہ تھا اور ان کی آنکھوں سے آنسو بہنے لگے ۔ جب درد ناقابل برداشت ہو گئی تو کی آنکھوں سے ایک قطرہ آنحضرت صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم پر پڑا۔ حضور صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم اٹھ گئے اورحضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ کی طرف دیکھا۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ کا ہاتھ زخمی تھا اور اس بچھو کے کاٹنے سے وہ بہت تکلیف میں تھے۔
آنحضرت صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ سے پوچھا ، “تم نے مجھے کیوں نہیں بتایا؟”
حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ نے جواب دیا ، “میں آپ کو پریشان نہیں کرنا چاہتا تھا۔”
حضور نبی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنا تھوک زخموں پر لگایا اور درد کم ہوگیا ۔ حضرت ابوبکر صدیق رضی اللہ عنہ خوش تھے کہ انہوں نے اپنے دوست کو راحت بخشی۔
یہ دوستی کی ایک حقیقی مثال ہے۔ یہ اخلاص ہے۔
وہ ہر آزمائش اور زندگی کے ہر قدم میں ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ تھے۔
اور موت کے بعد ان کی قبریں بھی ایک ہی جگہ پر ہیں۔ اور اللہ کی نعمت سے جنت میں ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ رہیں گے۔ ان شاء اللہ.
اگر ہم جنت میں پیغمبر اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے ساتھ رہنا چاہتے ہیں تو ہمیں ان سے پیار کرنا چاہئے اور اس کی سنت پر عمل کرنا چاہئے۔ ہمیں بطور دوست بہترین لوگوں کا انتخاب کرنا چاہئے۔ ہمیں اپنے دوستوں کے ساتھ اچھی چیزیں بانٹنا اور دین کی طرف لانا چاہئے۔
مجھے امید ہے کہ آپ اس کہانی کو اپنے دوستوں کے ساتھ شیئر کریں گے۔ تاکہ وہ آپ کے بہترین دوست بھی بن سکیں۔
یا راب ، ہمیں اچھے دوست مہیا کریں۔ آمین۔
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“Good Company: Hadith and Stories on Choosing Righteous Friends”
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Companions in Cave
Assalamoualaikum
My dear children, in a hadith our Prophet SAW said that make good friends because you will be with your friends in the hereafter. So if you will make good friends they will increase your good deeds and you will go to Jannah, but if you will make bad friends then they will lead you to hellfire.
Everyone likes to spend more time with the one they love, make new friends and spend more and more time with their friends to play and have fun. We should be very careful in choosing our friends as not everyone can be good friends. Our all-class fellows and our neighbors could not be our best friends.
We should make good friends because we will learn many good things from them. However, a bad friend can ruin our good habits. Good friends are those who teach us good things, forbid us from bad things, and help us in any trouble. If we have good friends in this world, Allah will provide us with the company of our good friends in Jannah in sha Allah.
Our prophet SAW was the best man in this world and he had many good and nice friends. All of his companions were very true believers and they helped our Prophet in every moment of life.
Among the companions Hazarat Abu Baker Sadiq RA was the best fellow. He loved the Prophet SAW a lot and was with him in every hardship of life. He was his friend before Islam and he was also the first Muslim.
When Our prophet SAW called people to accept Islam, everyone in Makkah became the enemy of Muhammad SAW. Many people disobeyed him and made many troubles in his way. Abu Bakar RA stood beside him to support him.
Abu Bakar RA was very wealthy, he had a very good business and he donated all his wealth and time for His friend and Allah.
His best sacrifice was on the Day of Hijra. Disbelievers of Makkah became the worst enemy of Our Prophet and they decided to kill our Prophet SAW. So by the order of Allah, Prophet SAW decided to go to Madina. Abu Bakr RA was with him during this journey and Abu Bakr RA saved him from Makkans.
Abu Baker brought two camels and they left Makkah during the night. They took shelter in a cave. The name of this cave is Thaur (saoor) . The cave was closed for many years. It was so dirty and scary. Abu Baker cleaned the cave himself. There were many holes in the cave in which there were many harmful insects. Abu Baker RA took some pieces from his shirt and closed the holes before entering the cave.
The Makkan followed them and reached there. Makkans were standing outside the cave where they were hiding but Allah saved His servants. Allah sent a dove there and that dove sat in her nest and started to lay eggs. Then a spider started to make a web. The door of the cave was now closed with the web. Disbelievers thought that no one could be here in this dirty and closed cave and so they left.
Both friends were saved and they decided to take some rest in the cave.
Abu Baker asked his best friend to have some rest. So Our Prophet SAW put his head into his lap and laid down. Suddenly a Scorpio appeared there.
Abu Baker decided not to disturb His Friend and put his hand on that Scorpio. That Scorpio kept biting Abu Baker RA. It was very painful and hard to bear and his eyes started to weep. When the pain was unbearable, one drop from his eyes dropped on the Prophet SAW. The Holy Prophet woke up and looked at him. Abu Baker’s RA hand was wounded and there were many bites of that scorpion. He was worried.
He asked him, “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Abu Baker replied, “I didn’t want to disturb you.”
The Holy Prophet SAW applied his spit onto the wounds and the pain was decreased. Abu Baker was happy that he provided comfort to his friend.
It is a real example of friendship. This is sincerity.
They were with each other in every trial and step of life.
And after death, their graves are also in the same place. And with the blessing of Allah they will be with each other in Jannah. In sha Allah.
If we want to be with Holy Prophet SAW in Jannah we should love him and follow His Sunnah. We should choose the best ones as friends. We should share good things with our friends and bring them towards deen.
This is true love. This is a true companionship to save each other from hellfire.
In sha Allah.
I hope you will share this story with your friends. So that they can also be your best friends.
Ya Rub, Provide us, with good friends. Ameen.
This story has been written for our Hadith with stories course designed for kids in English and Urdu. We also have prepared worksheets for kids. Visit the following links to read more about the course.
Starting Muslim homeschooling can be a rewarding experience for both parents and children. As a parent, you have the opportunity to provide your child with a tailored education that aligns with your values and beliefs. Here is a detailed guide on how to start a Muslim homeschooling program:
Step 1: Research the Legal Requirements
The first step in starting a Muslim homeschooling program is to research the legal requirements in your state or country. Laws and regulations can vary widely from one location to another. In the United States, for example, homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but the specific requirements can vary depending on where you live. To ensure that you are in compliance with the law, start by researching the homeschooling laws and regulations in your area.
Step 2: Goals and objectives
Define Your Educational Goals and Objectives The next step is to define your educational goals and objectives. As a Muslim homeschooling parent, you have the flexibility to tailor your child’s education to your values and beliefs. Start by considering the subjects that are important to you and your family, such as Islamic Studies, Arabic Language, and Quranic Studies. You may also want to consider other subjects, such as Math, Science, and Social Studies.
Choose a Curriculum Once you have defined your educational goals and objectives, the next step is to choose a curriculum. There are many options available online, including secular curricula that can be adapted to a Muslim homeschooling program, as well as specialized Muslim curricula.
There are many curriculums and books available for Muslim homeschooling families. Here are some popular options:
The Islamic Education Series: This is a comprehensive Islamic curriculum that covers all aspects of Islamic studies for children from kindergarten through grade 12. It is published by the International Islamic Publishing House.
Noorart: Noorart offers a variety of Islamic curriculums and textbooks for children of all ages. Their curriculums cover Quran, Islamic studies, the Arabic language, and more.
Islamic School Book: This is a series of textbooks published by the Islamic Services Foundation that cover Islamic studies, the Quran, and the Arabic language for children in grades 1-12.
I Love Islam: (Get Books) This is a comprehensive Islamic curriculum for children from kindergarten through grade 5. It is published by the Islamic Services Foundation.
A Guide to Islamic Studies: This is a comprehensive curriculum for Islamic studies for children from kindergarten through grade 12. It is published by the Muslim American Society.
The Seerah Trail: (Get Book)This is a unique Islamic curriculum that teaches the life of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) through a trail format. It is designed for children aged 7-11.
Learning Roots: (Get Books) Learning Roots offers a variety of Islamic books and resources for children of all ages. Their books cover topics such as Quran, Islamic studies, and Arabic language.
These are just a few of the many curriculums and books available for Muslim homeschooling families. It’s important to research and find a curriculum that fits your family’s needs and goals.
Be sure to research the different curricula available to find the one that best meets your needs and goals.
Step 4: Plan Your Lessons
Plan your lessons With your curriculum in hand, it’s time to plan your lessons. Start by breaking down the curriculum into manageable units and then plan the lessons for each unit. Be sure to allocate enough time for each subject and use a variety of teaching methods to keep your child engaged.
Step 5: Get the Necessary Resources
To effectively homeschool your child, you will need the necessary resources. This may include textbooks, workbooks, educational software, and other materials. Many resources are available online, or you may be able to find them at local homeschooling stores or Islamic bookstores. ( View or Buy)
When it comes to homeschooling, there are several resources that are necessary to ensure a successful and effective learning experience. Here are some essential homeschool resources:
Curriculum: A curriculum is the backbone of homeschooling. It provides a structured framework for learning and ensures that the child is learning what they need to know. There are many options for homeschool curriculums, including religious-based curriculums, secular curriculums, and online curriculums.
Learning Materials: Learning materials include textbooks, workbooks, worksheets, and other materials that are used to teach specific subjects. These materials are often part of the curriculum, but they can also be purchased separately or found online.
Supplies: Homeschooling requires various supplies, such as pencils, paper, art supplies, and manipulatives for math. Having the necessary supplies on hand is important for ensuring that the child has everything they need to complete their work.
Technology: In today’s world, technology is an essential part of homeschooling. Computers, tablets, and educational software can enhance the learning experience and provide a wealth of information and resources.
Support: Homeschooling can be challenging, and having a support system is essential. This can include other homeschooling families, online groups, co-ops, and tutors.
Field Trips: Field trips provide a hands-on learning experience and are an essential part of homeschooling. Trips to museums, historical sites, and other educational destinations can help bring learning to life.
Assessment Tools: Assessment tools, such as tests, quizzes, and progress reports, are essential for tracking the child’s progress and ensuring that they are meeting learning objectives.
These resources are essential for successful homeschooling. However, it’s important to remember that every family’s needs are different, and what works for one family may not work for another. It’s important to do research and find the resources that work best for your family’s unique needs and goals.
Step 6: Join Muslim Homeschooling Group
Joining a Muslim homeschooling group can provide valuable support and resources for both parents and children. These groups may offer online forums, in-person meetings, and other resources to help you connect with other Muslim homeschooling families. Some popular Muslim homeschooling groups include:
Muslim Homeschoolers Unite
Muslim Homeschooling Resources
Muslim Homeschool Network
Some Muslim homeschool groups on Facebook
There are many Muslim homeschooling groups on Facebook that offer support and resources to Muslim homeschooling families. Here are some of the popular Muslim homeschooling groups on Facebook:
Muslim Homeschoolers Unite: This is a global community of Muslim homeschooling parents and educators. The group offers support, resources, and advice on Muslim homeschooling.
Muslim Homeschooling Resources: This group is a resource hub for Muslim homeschooling parents. The group shares free resources, curriculum ideas, and tips for Muslim homeschooling.
Muslim Homeschool Network: This group is for Muslim homeschooling parents and students. The group shares advice, resources, and support for Muslim homeschooling families.
Muslimah Homeschool: This is a group for Muslim women who homeschool their children. The group offers support, resources, and advice on Muslim homeschooling.
Islamic Homeschooling: This group is for Muslim homeschooling parents who are interested in using an Islamic curriculum. The group shares curriculum ideas, resources, and advice on Islamic homeschooling.
Muslim Homeschooling Moms: This is a group for Muslim homeschooling moms to share their experiences, advice, and resources on Muslim homeschooling.
Islamic Homeschooling for Little Muslims: This group is for Muslim homeschooling parents with young children. The group shares ideas, resources, and advice on teaching Islam to young children.
These are just a few of the many Muslim homeschooling groups on Facebook. Joining a group can provide valuable support and resources for both parents and children.
Keeping records and creating a portfolio is essential for documenting your child’s progress and meeting legal requirements. Your portfolio should include samples of your child’s work, a record of lessons, and any assessments or evaluations.
Decorating and managing a homeschooling space can be an important part of creating a productive and inspiring learning environment. Here are some tips for Muslim homeschool decor and management:
Create a dedicated homeschool space: Designate a specific area in your home for homeschooling. This could be a separate room or a corner of a larger room. Having a dedicated space helps create a sense of structure and routine.
Incorporate Islamic art and decor: Including Islamic art and decor in your homeschooling space can help create a sense of connection to Islamic culture and values. This could include Islamic calligraphy, paintings, or even decorative items such as prayer rugs or Islamic-themed wall hangings.
Keep it organized: A well-organized homeschooling space can help create a calm and focused environment. Invest in storage solutions such as shelves, bins, and drawers to keep materials organized and easily accessible.
Create a schedule: Having a schedule helps create structure and routine in your homeschooling day. Create a schedule that includes time for prayer, breaks, and different subjects. This can help keep your homeschooling day on track and ensure that you cover all necessary subjects.
Utilize technology: Technology can be a valuable tool for homeschooling. Consider incorporating educational apps, online resources, and virtual field trips into your curriculum.
Take breaks: It’s important to take regular breaks to avoid burnout and maintain focus. Encourage your child to take breaks throughout the day, and use this time to relax and recharge.
Keep it comfortable: Creating a comfortable learning environment is important for ensuring that your child can focus and learn effectively. Make sure the space is well-lit, and consider adding comfortable seating or a cozy rug to create a warm and inviting atmosphere.
These tips can help create an effective and inspiring Muslim homeschooling space. Remember to personalize your homeschooling space to fit your family’s unique needs and preferences.
In summary, starting a Muslim homeschooling program requires careful planning and preparation. Research the legal requirements in your area, define your educational goals and objectives, choose a curriculum, plan your lessons, get the necessary resources, join a Muslim homeschooling group, keep records, and create a portfolio. With dedication and commitment, you can provide your child with a quality education that aligns with your values and beliefs.
Here are some book suggestions for a Muslim homeschool library:
“The Quran (get)” – The Quran is the central religious text of Islam and is essential for Muslim education. Consider having a copy of the Quran in your homeschool library for reference and study.
“Stories of the Prophets” by Ibn Kathir ( view books)– This book provides a collection of stories about the Prophets in Islam, including Adam, Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Jesus.
“1001 Inventions: Muslim Heritage in Our World” by Salim Al-Hassani – (Get Book)This book explores the contributions of Muslim scholars and inventors to science, technology, and culture throughout history.
“The Islamic Golden Age” by Jonathan Bloom and Sheila Blair – This book provides an overview of the Islamic Golden Age, a period of cultural, scientific, and artistic flourishing in the Muslim world from the 8th to the 14th century.
“The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Understanding Islam” by Yahiya Emerick –(Get Book)This book provides an introduction to Islam, including its beliefs, practices, and history.
“The Prophet’s Ramadan Handbook” by Dr. Taqi Hashmi and Dr. Abidullah Ghazi – This book provides guidance for observing Ramadan, including the history and significance of the holy month, fasting practices, and daily devotions.
“The Muslim Family Guide to Successful Homeschooling” by Dr. Nafiisah Chowdhury – This book provides guidance and advice for Muslim families who are homeschooling their children. (Get Parenting Book)
These books are a great starting point for a Muslim homeschool library, but there are many other books and resources available as well. It’s important to choose materials that align with your family’s values and goals for education.
Here are some Muslim children’s books available on Amazon:
“My First Quran Storybook” by Saniyasnain Khan
“Allah Gave Me Two Hands and Feet” by Fatima D’Oyen
“Under My Hijab” by Hena Khan
“Ilyas & Duck and the Fantastic Festival of Eid-al-Fitr” by Omar Khawaja
“The Story of the Elephant: Surah Al-Feel” by Hajera Memon
“A to Z of Akhlaaq: Moral Values for Children” by Sr. Nafees Khan
“Zaki’s Ramadan Fast” by Shaima Abdullah
“What is Jannah?” by Shahada Abdul Haqq
“The Adventures of Hakim: 2” by Wafa’ Tarnowska
“The Perfect Gift” by J. Samia Mair
Please note that this is just a small sample of the many Muslim children’s books available on Amazon, and there are many more titles and authors to explore.
