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Maryam A.S as a role model for girls and women
Imagine being the only woman mentioned by name in the entire Quran. Out of all the billions of women in history, Allah chose one—Maryam bint Imran—to be a permanent sign for humanity. Her life wasn’t a fairy tale; it was a journey of massive challenges and social pressure. Because of her loyalty and faith, Maryem A.S as a role modle of teen age girls and women remains the ultimate example of what it means to be truly brave.
A Different Kind of Childhood
It all started before she was even born. Her mother, Hannah, made a beautiful promise to Allah: “I want this child to be devoted only to You”. In those days, only boys were usually dedicated to temple service, but when Maryam was born, Allah accepted her with “goodly acceptance”.
Maryam grew up in a private room called a Mihrab. She wasn’t out chasing trends; she was focused on her connection with her Creator. Her uncle, Prophet Zakariya, would visit her and find her with fresh fruits that weren’t even in season. When he asked where they came from, her answer was simple: “It is from Allah. He provides for whoever He wills”.
The Lesson for You: Maryam didn’t wait until she was “old” to be pious. Her strength started in her teens. She knew that her worth wasn’t defined by people, but by Allah.
The News from the Angel: “Kun” (Be)
As she grew into a young woman, Maryam was known for her Batool nature—she was completely devoted and pure. One day, the Angel Jibril appeared in the form of a man. Her first reflex was modesty: “I seek refuge in Allah from you!”.
It was at this incredible moment that Allah honors her character in the Quran:
{And [the example of] Mary, the daughter of ‘Imraan, who guarded her chastity, so We blew into [her garment] through Our angel [i.e. Gabriel], and she believed in the words of her Lord and His scriptures and was of the devoutly obedient.}
Jibril explained he was a messenger to give her news of a holy son. Maryam was shocked and asked, “How is it possible? I’m unmarried. And I’m a very pure lady. I don’t have any relation with any man…”.
Jibril replied with the ultimate secret of the universe: “This is how… Allah says ‘kun’ (Be) and all things happen”. When Allah decrees something, He doesn’t need a “reason” or a “process.” He just says “Be,” and it is. Maryam trusted Allah’s plan instantly. She said “yes” to a destiny she knew would be almost impossible to explain to others.
Bravery in the Wilderness
When it was time to give birth, Maryam was alone. The pain was so intense and the fear of social judgment was so heavy that she cried out, “I wish I had died before this and was forgotten!”.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, Maryam felt that too. But Allah didn’t leave her. He gave her a stream of water and told her to shake the palm tree for fresh dates. Even in her weakest moment, Allah asked her to take action—to shake the tree.
The Lesson for You: Faith doesn’t mean you never feel pain. It means that when you do, you turn to Allah and keep moving, even if you’re just “shaking the tree” with your last bit of strength.
Facing the “Haters” with a Fast of Silence
The hardest part was going home. Carrying a baby while unmarried was a social death sentence. But Allah gave her a specific order: You will not say anything. He commanded her to tell the people through signs: “Indeed, I have vowed a fast of silence to the Most Merciful, so I will not speak today to any human”.
When she walked into town, the crowds gathered to mock her. She didn’t argue or try to defend herself. She remained silent with dignity and simply pointed to her baby.
Then, the miracle happened. Baby Isa spoke from the cradle: “Indeed, I am the servant of Allah. He has given me the Scripture and made me a prophet… and He has made me kind to my mother”. Allah protected her reputation because she had protected her relationship with Him.
The Perfect Mother: The Honor of “Ibne Maryam”
Maryam raised her son to be a perfect human being—a Prophet who was kind and wise. Their bond was so powerful that in the Quran, Prophet Isa (A.S.) is almost always called “Ibne Maryam” (the Son of Maryam).
In a world that usually names children after their fathers, Allah honored Maryam by linking a great Prophet’s name to hers over 23 times. This shows that a
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also confirmed her perfection in these famous Hadiths:
“Many men reached the level of perfection, but no woman reached such a level except Maryam, the daughter of Imraan, and Asia, the wife of Pharaoh.”
“The best of the women of the world are: “Maryam Bint ‘Imraan, Khadeejah Bint Khuwaylid, Faatimah Bint Muhammad, and Asia, the wife of Pharaoh.”
Maryem A.S as a role modle of teen age girls and women shows us that a girl who trusts Allah is stronger than any challenge the world can throw at her.woman’s identity and her role as a mother are deeply respected in Islam.
Conclusion: A Legacy of Faith for Today’s Girls
Maryam (A.S.) isn’t just a figure from ancient history; her entire life story, from her devoted childhood to her unwavering strength as a mother, shines as a beacon for us all. She teaches us that true beauty lies in inner strength, that modesty is empowering, and that loyalty to Allah will always be rewarded, even in the face of the greatest challenges. Her incredible journey, crowned by the miracle of Prophet Isa (A.S.) speaking from the cradle, reminds every girl and woman that with faith, anything is possible.
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